Things to Do as a Single, Friendless Girl: Embracing Self-Discovery and Enjoying Your Own Company
Alright, so you’re a single, friendless girl. What now? First off, stop feeling bad about it. You’re living the dream—free to do whatever the heck you want, whenever the heck you want. No drama, no commitments, and certainly no one telling you what to do. So, let’s flip the script and make this season of solo greatness the best time of your life. Here’s a list of things to do that’ll help you embrace your independence and find joy in your own company!
1. Take Yourself on Dates (Because You Deserve It)
Who says you need someone else to wine and dine you? Screw that—treat yourself to that fancy dinner you’ve been eyeing for weeks. No waiting for a text, no awkward silences, just you, a glass of wine, and the perfect Instagram photo to make your ex jealous. Solo dates are the ultimate flex. Plus, you won’t have to share your fries, which is always a win.
2. Become the Boss of Your Own Passion Projects
You’ve got dreams, babe. Big dreams. Now’s the time to dive headfirst into them. Want to learn how to crochet, start a YouTube channel, or write that novel? Go for it. You’ve got all the time and energy in the world (well, mostly). And the best part? No one is going to judge you if you binge-watch a new series after 30 minutes of productivity. It’s all about balance, darling.
3. Travel Solo Like a Rockstar
Solo travel isn’t just for Instagram influencers. It’s for badasses like you. Pack your bags, grab your passport, and hit the road. Who cares if you don’t have a travel buddy? You’re living your own adventure. From spontaneous weekend getaways to jet-setting across the globe, traveling alone is a total game-changer. And when you meet new people along the way? You’ll already have the perfect story for them. #BossStatus
4. Volunteer (But Make It Fun)
Okay, so you’re a boss who wants to give back to the community. But let’s be real, volunteering is way more fun when you make it your own little “project.” Volunteer at a cat shelter, or help organize a charity event—but don’t forget to look fabulous doing it. The universe rewards good karma, but it also rewards confidence, so strut your stuff while you’re making the world a better place.
5. Pamper Yourself Like the Diva You Are
You don’t need a spa day booked by someone else. Create your own at-home beauty retreat. Think face masks, bubble baths, candles, and your fave playlist blasting in the background. This is your time, honey. You’re not just relaxing; you’re recharging like the unstoppable goddess you are. Treat yourself like royalty because, spoiler alert: You are royalty.
6. Get Lost in a Good Book (and Ignore Your Phone)
Books are like magic—except they don’t require Wi-Fi. Escape into new worlds, whether it’s a thriller that makes your heart race or a self-help book that’ll turn you into a powerhouse. Seriously, you’ll be so caught up in your latest literary adventure that your phone will start gathering dust. Don’t worry, it’s not going anywhere.
7. Start a Journal or Blog (Because You're Basically a Genius)
You’ve got thoughts, feelings, and opinions, right? It’s time to get them out of your head and into the world. Start a journal or blog and document your epic adventures in solo living. Trust me, you’ll look back in a year and be like, “Wow, I was so freakin’ smart!” Bonus: Writing helps clear your mind and makes you feel like you have your life together (even if you don’t).
8. Learn Something New (Because You're a Total Badass)
You’re never too old to learn something new, babe. Pick up a musical instrument, try learning a new language, or finally tackle that knitting project you’ve been thinking about since forever. Your brain is a sponge, and it deserves to soak up as much awesomeness as possible. Plus, when you tell people you can now speak French (or are a certified yoga instructor), they’ll be impressed. #MultiTalentedQueen
9. Redecorate Your Space Like You're on HGTV
Your space should feel like a sanctuary, not a disaster zone. Time to channel your inner designer and make your place feel like an Instagram-worthy oasis. Rearrange that furniture, add a few plants (because let’s be real, they’re life), and slap up some killer artwork. Your living room will look so chic, even your dog will be jealous of your vibe.
10. Meditate (Because You’re the Master of Your Mind)
Meditation doesn’t have to be some deep, zen, “I’m one with the universe” thing (unless that’s your vibe). Just take a few minutes each day to breathe deeply, close your eyes, and think about how amazing you are. A little mental check-in never hurt anyone, and it helps you stay centered in a world that’s constantly trying to pull you in a thousand directions. Namaste, queen.
11. Work Out Like a Boss (And Look Hot Doing It)
Exercise isn’t just for fitness junkies. It’s for people who want to feel strong, confident, and hot. Whether it’s yoga, pilates, or twerking to your favorite songs, find what makes you move and groove. Not only will it make you feel like a superhero, but you’ll also start seeing those #Results that make you strut around like you own the place.
12. Connect with People Online (But in a Super Chill Way)
Let’s be real: the internet is a magical place to find new friends, inspiration, and even your next obsession. Join groups, engage in conversations, and make new connections that make you feel like you belong somewhere. Just don’t get caught up in the comparison game—remember, you’re fabulous in your own right. #SelfLove
13. Be a Tourist in Your Own City (Because You’re a Local Legend)
Ever been to the “touristy” spots in your own city? No? Well, it’s time to change that. Go check out that famous park, museum, or quirky café you always drive by but never stop at. Turn your hometown into your playground. Bonus points if you take a ton of pictures for social media and make everyone else wish they were as cool as you.
14. Set Goals and Smash Them (Like a Total Queen)
Goals are your thing. Write them down, track your progress, and don’t stop until you’re living your dream life. Want to run a marathon? Start a business? Master the art of macaron-making? You’re in charge here. Every time you hit a goal, you’ll feel like you just unlocked a new level in the game of life.
15. Enjoy Your Own Company (Because You're Literally the Best)
Look, sometimes the best thing you can do is just be with yourself. You’re freaking amazing, and it’s time you start recognizing that. You don’t need anyone else to validate you—your own company is all you need. Kick back, relax, and enjoy the quiet. You’re the star of your own show, baby.
So, there you have it—things to do as a single, friendless girl that will have you feeling like the boss you were born to be. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad about flying solo. Embrace your independence, level up your life, and have fun with it. The world is your oyster, babe, and you're about to shine brighter than ever. ⭐
